Jaiya has over three decades of experience guiding individuals and couples into embodied awakening through sacred sexuality. She began her journey with Ipsalu Tantra in 1997, entering this beautiful lineage that recognizes eros as a divine force and the body as a living gateway to spiritual realization. She is a graduate of Level One, Level Two and Level Three, and studied to become an Ipsalu Teacher.  This lineage has always remained the heart and foundation of her personal practice and has informed her body of work.

As the founder of the Erotic Blueprints™, the author of Red Hot Touch, and guide on the Netflix Series Sex, Love and Goop, Jaiya is widely known for her contributions to the modern understanding of sexuality. Within an Ipsalu context, however, her work is rooted less in conceptual frameworks and more in direct transmission—meeting students in the subtle terrain where breath, presence, sensation, and devotion converge.

Jaiya’s teaching honors the core Ipsalu principles of attunement, consent, polarity play, and the sanctification of sexual energy. She brings a rare capacity to weave ancient tantric wisdom with lived experience, supporting students in cultivating intimacy that is emotionally honest, erotically alive, and spiritually grounded.

Her approach is both precise and compassionate, honoring the nervous system, the pace of true integration, and the unique unfolding of each individual’s path. Students often experience her work as deeply stabilizing and transformative—opening access to states of union, truth, and embodied love that can be integrated into daily life.

At the heart of Jaiya’s teaching is a devotion to remembrance:
that sexuality, when met with consciousness, becomes prayer—
and that love longs to know itself fully, in form.